Being silly together feels more intimate than I expected
I know I’m comfortable when I stop trying to be impressive and start doing things that make both of us laugh.
Read entry →Lily’s notes on dating
I want a relationship that can be romantic and ridiculous.
I love closeness that feels light enough for bad jokes, silly ideas, playful dates, and all the little moments where you stop worrying about looking cool and just enjoy being together.
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I keep learning that a relationship can feel serious without taking itself seriously all the time.
The best dates give us something to do, not just somewhere to sit
Painting, dressing up, trying something weird — I like plans that turn into a shared story.
Read entry →I like the moment dating stops feeling like an audition
The relationship gets better when both people can finally relax a little.
Read entry →Fun works better when the serious stuff can be said too
I want laughter and honesty. One feels better when the other is there.
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I think playfulness can tell you a lot about compatibility.
Some people make you feel like you have to stay polished. Other people make you want to laugh, make something, dress up for no reason, and be a little ridiculous. I know which version I prefer.
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